Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Togetherness


A few weeks ago the lady in my life (I won’t mention her name here.  If you stay with me you’ll see why) suggested we have some together time.
“Let’s get up early one Sunday morning and go out to Venice Beach.  We can rent elliptical bikes, and ride along the bike path together.”
“Elliptical?”
“Yes, just like the machine I like to use at the gym.  You like working out.  You’ll get both a great arms and cardio workout.  And we’ll do it together.”

I don’t use the elliptical machine at the gym.  I used to use the Stairmaster, but 30-45 minutes of going nowhere didn’t do it for me.  But this was different.  We’d be at the beach, riding along in the open air.
She even had a Groupon for a two hour ride.  So Sunday before last, we got up early and headed out to beautiful Venice Beach.  As we got closer to the beach, the sky clouded up.  The weather man calls this the inversion layer.  I was hoping the beach would be sunny, but my lady pointed out that since we were going to be working out, the cool air would be welcome.

We arrived at the bike rental just after they opened for the day.  We signed up for bikes, watched a short video on how to ride the darn things, and then the clerk took us out to the parking lot for a practice run before we headed off to the bike path.


That’s me in the parking lot, getting up on the bike for the first time. 
We got on our bikes and I took off around the parking lot.  I noticed the faster I went, the easier it was to hold my balance.  I stopped, looked behind me.  My lady was not there.  I walked my bike back to where she was standing next to hers.  Let me tell you, walking an elliptical bike is not as easy as walking a two-wheeler.  It’s more like walking an octopus.
“You okay?” I asked, out of breath from walking the bike.
“Yes.   It’s different than the one at the gym.  It kind of sways back-and-forth.”
Do I remind her the machine at the gym is a stationery bike, and this is the real deal?  No.  That wouldn’t go over very well.  I said nothing.
A short time later, we made our way to the bike path.
“I’ll be right behind you,” she said.
“I won’t go too fast.  I’ll let you get the hang of it.  But you know, the faster you go, the easier it is to keep your balance.”
“Got it,” she replied.
 I didn’t see her again for half an hour.  After riding for a few minutes I looked back and saw that she had stopped.  I figured I’d ride very slowly so she could catch up.  But she didn’t catch up.  After a while, I stopped along-side the bike path and waited.  Ten minutes and probably twenty bikes passed me by.  A group of four on ellipticals (that I had passed a long time ago) went flying by.

I decided to go back.  I figured when I saw her coming up the bike path, I’d make a U-turn, and we could ride along together.  About twenty feet from where she first stopped I saw her alongside the path.
“You okay?”
“Yes.  I’m just getting the hang of this thing.  Don’t worry about me.  You ride ahead, when I see you on your way back, I will turn around and join you.  Don’t let me spoil your fun.”
It was then I decided she should take a picture of me riding the bike.


I’m glad I did.  This was the last time I saw her before our two hours were up.  When I got back to the parking lot, she was standing by her bike.
“I thought you might come back here to practice some more,” I said.
“I didn’t practice.  I just came back and waited for you.  Did you have fun?”
“Yeah, but I thought we were going to do this together.  We did do it together.”

Do I point out that the only time we were together was in the car on the way to the beach? No.

Afterwards, we went to lunch.  She told me how much fun she’d had, and that she’d like to do it again.  That’s when it hit me (any guy reading this needs to let this coming part soak in) for a woman, togetherness is not a state of being, togetherness is a state of mind.
“It had fun,” I said as I drove her home.  “Let me know when you’d like to do it again.”
I write paranormal novels about young women, their thoughts, their hopes, their dreams.  I think I just learned something I didn’t know.  Maybe I can use it in my next book.

BTW, I was sore for a week.

Peace.

Friday, August 5, 2011

High School Book Drive

This post is a reblog.  I don't normally do reblogs, but this one is important.  Please read:

Danielle over at Frenzy of Noise wrote a post about a high school who only had 63 books in their library. So I decided to pass the word along and let everyone know that this high school desperately needs book donations. Here's the info. directly from Danielle's post:

I know I'm part of a community that bands together to stand up for literary injustice, backlash, plagiarism and everything in between. We build hashtags on twitter and give small ideas a way to be big. We're awesome.

That's why when the director of my MFA program sent us an email about a book drive, I knew I had to bring the need to my community. This community. Why? Well...
"The literature section of Ballou Senior High School's library in Washington, DC has 63 books, not enough to fill five small shelves. In the area marked "Pure Science," there are 77 volumes. The generally accepted standard for school libraries is 11 books for each of Ballou's 1,104 students." THAT'S WHY.

What they need:
Everything. From Shakespeare to Octavia Butler to Richard Wright. Fantasy, sci-fi, YA, adult fiction, history books, poetry, classic literature, science. Basically anything and everything that's suitable for high school. They will take anything as long as it is in GOOD condition and has no writing in it.

I've asked if they would accept ARCs (new and old), and the director of the book drive, Lisa, said YES. Please note however, that they really need finished copies. ARCs are fantastic, but the lasting value isn't always standing.

How to donate:
If you have books you want to give, please mail them directly to:
The Art of Living Center
International Association for Human Values
c/o Filiz Odabas-Geldiay
2401 15th St. NW
Washington, DC 20009

There should be a note inside donation boxes that says:
Green Line Initiative Book Drive
attn: Lisa Pegram
They will be accepting books until August 22!!

Also, if you'd like to include some kind of quick note for the kids, words of encouragement, that would be awesome!! But it's not mandatory.

Spread the word!

Reblog this post on your blog. Tweet this post. (we're on twitter at #HSBookDrive) Tell everyone. Send books.

I really hope you guys can all participate in some way. (Even if it's just blogging or tweeting about it.) My high school library had quite a lot of books and I was in there all the time. I'd like to help create a library like that for these kids. So let's get them some books to read!

Peace

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Bad Boy, Bad Boy, Whatcha Gonna Do?


Lots of female friends have told me they’ve had boyfriends from hell. I’ve heard some horror stories and some very funny stories as well. Many women thought they were getting involved with sweet guys, only to find out they were going to hell. But others, many others, chose to date bad boys… on purpose.

In writing Boyfriend From Hell, I tried to deal with what a girl feels dating a bad boy. I created Guy Matson, the handsome, bad boy Megan is instantly attracted to. In truth, I have no idea what it feels like being a bad boy. Although when I was growing up I really, really, really wanted to be one. When I was fourteen I fell in love with a girl who had a thing for bad boys—the guys who ditched school, and drank, and made out with their girlfriends right on the school steps; the boys who didn’t seem to care if they got busted by a teacher or the cops.

One day I got up the nerve to walk Carolyn home from school. She only lived two blocks from school, so I could walk her home and still get home before my mother started a sweep of the neighborhood looking for me. My mom was a stickler for us getting home on time. But Carolyn didn’t know I had a three o’clock curfew. For all she knew, I didn’t have to be home—ever.

We walked and she asked me if I’d ever been to a certain community center on Friday nights. They had dancing. I grew up in a tough neighborhood. The community center she spoke of was in the toughest part of the neighborhood. I did not walk down that street after dark.

“Dancing, huh? I love to dance.” I did like to dance. Of course, it was mostly at home alone in my mirror, or with my mother. But she didn’t need to know who my partner was. For all she knew, I was dancing the night away at wild parties every weekend.

“You should come,” she said.

“Will you be there?” This was the height of flirting for me. My palms were sweaty when I asked the question. What did you expect, George Clooney? I was a fourteen year-old who had to be in the house by three o’clock for chrissake.

“Yes,” she said. The way she said yes left no doubt in my mind, that if I swaggered into that community center looking like the Fonz, Carolyn would be mine.

Friday evening I announced I was going to the community center. Mom didn’t need to know which one. By the time I got there my heart was beating a mile a minute—partly because I was nervous about seeing Carolyn, and partly because I feared for my life. When I arrived outside, Carolyn was on the steps talking to a bad boy who had the youthful swagger of James Dean. He was very close to her, and she seemed to like the closeness. She looked up and saw me.

“Oh, hi, you came,” she said with a smile that was warm and inviting.

“Yeah. I come here sometimes, just to kick it, you know.” I said trying to sound like I had swagger as well.

That’s when I noticed the boy she standing with eyeing me like I was just the person he had been waiting to punch in the face. He whispered something in her ear, draped his arm around her shoulder. She laughed.

“See you inside,” she said.

I nodded and went inside. A short time later I slipped out the side door and went back home. I didn’t know if the boy was her boyfriend. But I knew I wasn’t a bad boy. I could never whisper seductively in her ear, or drape my around her shoulder without sweating out my undershirt. I was destined to be a nice guy. In retrospect, I realize there’s nothing wrong with that.

In Boyfriend From Hell, when Megan is flirting with the idea of being a bad girl she muses: You can’t be a bad girl, unless you actually do something bad. Megan couldn’t fake it, and neither could I.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Book Lovin' Bitches Ebook Tour


The marketing and publicity for Boyfriend From Hell is about to begin.  I have an awesome tour schedule beginning with my Book Lovin' Bitches Ebook Tour.  The tour was put together by Theresa at Fade Into Fantasy.  I am so lucky to have discovered Theresa.  She's done a fantastic job of putting my tour together.  Thanks, Theresa. There will be twenty-six stops, and several of them will have giveaways.  So if you're still hoping to win a copy of Boyfriend From Hell, here's your chance.  Please drop in on a tour stop or two, support me, win a book, and maybe meet some new friends.  The tour schedule is below:


 
8/10 - review @ Imaginary Reads
8/11 - review @ Reading Romances
8/11 - review @ The Book Addict
8/12 - review @ My Neurotic Book Affair
8/12 - giveaway @ Reading Romances
8/13 - interview @ My Neurotic Book Affair
8/13 - giveaway @ Imaginary Reads
8/15 - review @ Book Lover's Hideaway
8/16 - giveaway @ Book Lover's Hideaway
8/16 - review @ Sugarbeat's Books
8/17 - interview @ Sugarbeat's Books
8/17 - review @ Just Another Book Addict
8/17 - review @ It's All About Books
8/18 - review @ EARphoria
8/18 - interview @ Just Another Book Addict
8/19 - excerpt @ It's All About Books
8/20 - interview @ EARphoria
8/22 - review @ The Phantom Paragrapher
8/23 - review @ Lisa's World of Books
8/24 - giveaway @ Lisa's World of Books
8/25 - interview @ The Book Addict
8/26 - excerpt @ The Phantom Paragrapher
8/27 - review @ Nightly Reading
8/28 - giveaway @ Nightly Reading
8/29 - review @ Novel Addiction
8/30 - giveaway @ Novel Addiction

Peace.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge Results


You guys are too good for me! Everyone who played the Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge this week got it right. Unfortunately there were only five players. For those of you who didn't play, the correct answers were:

Ellen Page. Inception. Subconscious.

This week's winner is a fairly new player, Nikki. Congratulations, Nikki. Your $10 Amazon gift card will go out later today.

I am going to put the challenge on hiatus for a while. I don't know if the low turnout is because of low interest, the new format, or the time of year. I am going to contribute it to the time of year. It's summer, and people are spending time outside, enjoying the good weather. So the challenge will not be returning until the fall, or even winter. As you know, my new book, Boyfriend From Hell, comes out in September. The sequel, Earth Angel, comes out in December.   This is a very ambitious production schedule. I am just now starting the marketing for Boyfriend from Hell, along with the edit for Earth Angel, so I will be having a very busy summer.

Still, I will be checking in each week, keeping you up to date on what's happening with me, the book, and my boring life... Just kidding.  My life is not boring.  How can it be?  My dream was to write for a living, and that is what I do.  I really hope I can count on some of you to go out and buy the book when it comes out in September.  You know, help keep my dream alive. Those of you that have won a free ARC, I hope you will write an Amazon review and recommend it to a friend.

And please, tell your friends about the Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge.  We need to have a good turnout for me to keep it going.  Peace.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge--New Format



It's time for our next Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge.  I am excited about this week's challenge because we have a new format.  The new format should make it easier for more people to play. It's a word jumble.  Each challenge will consist of three separate jumbles.  Three words you will have to unscramble all relating to the same movie.  The subjects you will have to unscramble are: movie title, name of an actor in the movie, and one word that can be used in a description of the movie.  The three jumbles are not necessarily going to be given in the order I just stated.  Here is an unjumbled example:


The X Men
Halle Berry
Mutants

And remember, while we call it the Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge, you don't have to enter today. You have 6 days to enter. The drawing closes Sunday evening, so everyone has plenty of time to come up with the correct answer. But just one entry per person will be accepted. The winner will receive a free $10 Amazon gift card. On Monday I will draw a winner from all the correct answers, and post the winner here next Tuesday. Are you ready for the challenge?

Here ya go:
eplen gela

nitponcei


suconcisoub


 Remember, this is all from one movie, and may not be in the order stated.  If you'd like to play there are a few things you will need to do to qualify.

1) be a follower of this blog, or...
2) ...follow me at http://www.evanlowe.com/
3) leave a comment on this blog in the comment section on any of my posts anytime during the week of the current challenge. DO NOT put your answer in the comments, instead…
4) send your answer to me at info@evanlowe.com
5)mention the Hollyweird Tuesday Trivia Challenge either on your blog or in a tweet the week of the current challenge.
Do 1 +3,4&5, or 2 +3 ,4&5 and you are entered to win. Remember, you must do four things to qualify to win.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on  the new concept.  If you like it or hate it, please let me know.  Peace.

Saturday, July 2, 2011

The Early Reviews Are In!



Hey gang! I recently received my first two reviews for Boyfriend From Hell. They're both positive. And the best part is, they're not from stodgy reviewers. They're from readers, like you. Don't you want to know what people are saying about the book? Of course you do! You can find one of the reviews right here: Boyfriend Review.

I have also recently booked two awesome blog tours that begin in August and run through the entire month of September. I will keep you posted on my tour stops as the time draws nearer. And in case you forgot, my launch party is September 10th. I'd like to see most of you there: Free food, free booze, music, a reading by yours truly, along with other surprises. And did I mention it's all free to my friends and fans? If you are planning to be in the LA area in September you need to make this event. If you're not planning on being here, you need to make a special trip. This is an event you won't want to miss.

All for now. Go read my early review. Peace.